I have been in a serious
relationship for nearly a decade. My significant other and I were first
introduced by a mutual friend. Of course, during the “honey moon” period things
were great. Everything was new and exciting. We were learning about each other;
we were learning how we interacted best. We fell in love.
After awhile, I realized the relationship
was going to take work. I wasn’t sure if I was ready for such a significant
commitment. I began to let other people get in the way. They didn’t understand
the deep connection we had. It wasn’t relatable – it was special.
After a few years, the relationship
became the last on my priority list. Maybe now was the time for something
magical to happen.
A friend recommended we take time
to sit and work out our problems. Before, we had relied on our natural
attraction to each other to get us by. We were told that if we really wanted to
make it, we had to have an even stronger bond. One that we chose to forge; one
that made us want to be together every second of every day.
As we began working together, I
became overwhelmed with emotion and the outside stresses that had created a
strain on our relationship. Finally, tears escaped from my eyes.
I wanted to run away and hide.
Somehow, the bond between us didn’t let me. Instead we continued to interact.
He stood by me as I let loose. It was so relieving because I was able to free
myself emotionally and physically.
I stopped paying attention to my
surroundings and focused on us. What we had become and what we could be in the
future. When I felt there was no more that could be communicated, I gently
loosened my bow and lowered the endpin. I delicately placed my cello back into
its case.
My cello had become a part of my
life. We would be together forever.
I love this story!
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